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I can't begin to tell you how many times I've been asked why women cry during an orgasm! It seems like such a strange phenomena to men but ask any woman, and she'll give you enough reasons to fill a small loose leaf binder, and fast. The real truth is that there are a number of different reasons why a woman can have a profoundly emotional experience during the throes of intense intimacy, but the good news is that MOST of those reasons are good! And if you've had a lot of different partners in your life, ( or plan to ) the truth that you WILL eventually find one who cries either before, during or AFTER orgasm! Let's look at some of the more common reasons below.

Women are Emotional Creatures, and the Orgasm is an Emotional Experience

Men simply don't experience orgasm the very same way as we do, therefore they are FAR more likely to feel JUST the physical phenomena that correlates with the experience. Alternatively, women simply FEEL the intensity of this sort of intimate release in ways that FAR transcend the physical, which brings a flood of all kinds of things to the surface....including tears of emotion. Which is usually a sign she's feeling close to you to boot.

But sometimes it can be......

A sign of guilt! Or shame. Or even embarrassment. Everyone has their own "stuff" and baggage, and often times crying during orgasm is a sign that she may have issues regarding any of the above. Do you know her well? Are you in an exclusive relationship....or might she also be intimate with someone else? Often times women have guilt issues as they pertain to sexuality, and this sort of response is a textbook reaction to not feeling worthy of having had a VERY pleasurable sexual experience.

As always...the KEY is to ask and find out! Trust me, nothing is sexier than a man who wants to know.

And One Last thing.....Remember

Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex ( which means she wants a little lusty dialogue, they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body ) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy ( a thicker penis is preferable ) You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold.

The above information thankfully comes from the dosupersex.blogspot.com at the following link.

Neuroscientists trying to untangle the riddle of desire and sexual pleasure in the brain have discovered something that turns conventional wisdom on its head. Though most people believe that men are less emotional about sex than women are, the neurology of orgasm says otherwise, at least according to an intriguing article in Scientific American. During orgasm, men experience heightened activity in the emotion processing centers of the brain. But women's brains, say researchers, are shut down in emotion-processing regions during arousal and orgasm.

Scientific American's Martin Portner writes :

Looking at the brains of orgasm men using a PET scanner, scientists also saw heightened activity in brain regions involved in memory-related imagery and in vision itself, perhaps because the volunteers used visual imagery to hasten orgasm. The anterior part of the cerebellum also switched into high gear. The cerebellum has long been labeled the coordinator of motor behaviors but has more recently revealed its role in emotional processing. Thus, the cerebellum could be the seat of the emotional components of orgasm in men, perhaps helping to coordinate those emotions with planned behaviors. The amygdala, the brain's center of vigilance and sometimes fear, showed a decline in activity at ejaculation, a probable sign of decreasing vigilance during sexual performance.

To find out whether orgasm looks similar in the female brain, neuroscientist Gert Holstege's team asked the male partners of 12 women to stimulate their partner's clitoris the site whose excitation most easily leads to orgasm until she climaxed, again inside a PET scanner. Not surprisingly, the team reported in 2006, clitoral stimulation by itself led to activation in areas of the brain involved in receiving and perceiving sensory signals from that part of the body and in describing a body sensation for instance, labeling it "sexual."

But when a woman reached orgasm, something unexpected happened: much of her brain went silent. Some of the most muted neurons sat in the left lateral orbitofrontal cortex, which may govern self-control over basic desires such as sex. Decreased activity there, the researchers suggest, might correspond to a release of tension and inhibition. The scientists also saw a dip in excitation in the dorsomedial prefrontal cortex, which has an apparent role in moral reasoning and social judgment a change that may be tied to a suspension of judgment and reflection.

Brain activity fell in the amygdala, too, suggesting a depression of vigilance similar to that seen in men, who generally showed far less deactivation in their brain during orgasm than their female counterparts did. "Fear and anxiety need to be avoided at all costs if a woman wishes to have an orgasm; we knew that, but now we can see it happening in the depths of the brain," Holstege says. He went so far as to declare at the 2005 meeting of the European Society for Human Reproduction and Development: "At the moment of orgasm, women do not have any emotional feelings."

By Annalee Newitz

I am asking your advice on something because I do not know what else to do. Please keep this confidential. My husband was giving me oral sex the other night, normally I will not just "let myself go", I always stop him when I start to get too excited. I do not know why it is, I guess I just feel myself loosing control and don't know what to do with myself so I make him stop. I think I have only had an orgasm a couple of times. But that's not the biggest problem.

While my husband was giving me oral sex, he held my legs down when I started to pull him off of me, I was glad that he did hold my legs down because I was able to orgasm. The problem is that when I felt like I was about "done" I guess you could say, I felt myself feeling as though I wanted to cry. Then I pushed my husband off of me and told him to "stop", and then I pulled him on me and embraced him into a huge bear hug. He kept asking if I was okay and kept trying to turn towards me to see my face. I wouldn’t let him because I was crying and I just could not hold it back. All I could think about was "What is wrong with me?" Why in the hell would I start crying? I was completely enjoying myself. My husband got very weird on me after that. I kept trying to ask him why he was acting that way. Of course he didn’t know what to think because that had never happened to him before. He finally decided to question whether I have been doing something wrong or not. I couldn't believe it! I did not and would not ever cheat on my husband. But he made me feel as though I had been doing something wrong. I never saw him look at me before the way he did when he thought I was cheating. I told him that I have not been doing anything wrong. So why would I have started crying? I am really scared about my reaction. Have you EVER heard of anyone responding like that. PLEASE give me some type of advice on why you might think I reacted that way. I don't know what to do or think.

Many women cry as a result of having an orgasm. Since you haven’t had that many, you haven’t exhibited this before. As you said, you normally stop yourself from losing control, but this time you didn’t, so not only did you have an orgasm, but you cried as well. It does not mean that you cheated or any thing else. It just means that the orgasm triggered a lot of emotions which resulted in your crying.

What you have to do is show your husband this answer. He has to know that he shouldn’t be suspicious just because you cried after having an orgasm and didn’t want to look at him. You both should know that this happens, and you shouldn’t be ashamed if it happens again, and he shouldn’t be suspicious.


The above information thankfully comes from the drruth.com at the following link.